What is misgendering?

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June 13, 2023
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Misgendering refers to the act of using language or pronouns that do not correctly align with a person's gender identity. It occurs when someone refers to or addresses an individual using gendered terms or pronouns that do not match the gender the person identifies with.

For example, misgendering occurs when referring to a transgender woman as "he" or a transgender man as "she." It can also happen when using incorrect gendered language to describe or address non-binary, genderqueer, or other gender non-conforming individuals.

Misgendering can be unintentional, resulting from lack of awareness or understanding, or it can be purposeful and disrespectful, used as a form of invalidation or discrimination towards someone's gender identity. Regardless of intent, misgendering can be hurtful and undermine an individual's sense of self and identity.

Using correct gender pronouns and honorifics is essential in respecting and affirming a person's gender identity. It acknowledges their self-identified gender and promotes a more inclusive and supportive environment. It is important to actively listen, ask for preferred pronouns if unsure, and make an effort to use them consistently and respectfully.

Correcting misgendering mistakes, apologizing if unintentional, and making an effort to learn and use the appropriate language helps create a more inclusive and respectful space for everyone, particularly for transgender and gender non-conforming individuals.