When referring to someone who is transgender, it is respectful to use their affirmed gender identity and the pronouns that correspond with that identity. The appropriate way to refer to someone who is transgender is to use the pronouns that align with their gender identity.
For example, if someone identifies as a transgender man, it is respectful to use male pronouns (he/him). If someone identifies as a transgender woman, it is respectful to use female pronouns (she/her). Similarly, for individuals who identify as non-binary or use gender-neutral pronouns such as they/them, it is important to use the correct pronouns to respect their gender identity.
It's worth noting that not all transgender individuals may have transitioned or publicly disclosed their gender identity. In such cases, it's essential to use the name and pronouns they have specified or to default to gender-neutral language (such as using their name instead of pronouns) until they indicate their preferred pronouns.
Using the correct pronouns and respectful language demonstrates support, validation, and respect for a person's gender identity. It helps create an inclusive and affirming environment where transgender individuals can be seen, heard, and recognized as their true selves. If you are unsure about someone's pronouns, it's best to politely ask or use gender-neutral language until you receive clarification.